Topic
Etiquette
Asking for one without wasting anybody time, yours included.
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Wanting more than the budget
Say your budget once and ask what fits it; a judge would rather scope a shorter, better clip than have you accept a quote you resent.
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Two buyers, one clip
Both partners consent, the person pictured confirms it directly, and the brief says who the clip is addressed to; get those three right and the rest is normal.
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Language requests
Ask up front whether a judge works in the language you want, accept that it may change scope, and do not assume a register survives translation unchanged.
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Asking for appreciation
The worst worship briefs list the compliments wanted; the best give a detail and a tone and let the judge find the words, which is what you are paying for.
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Setting up a scenario
Give the setting, the role and the beats you care about, then stop; a scenario brief that reads like a screenplay removes the judgement you are paying for.
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The profile is the contract
Judges publish what they will and will not do; reading it first means your request is either in bounds or not sent, and both are better than a wasted round.
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Gifting a commission
A review as a gift works only if the recipient agrees to be assessed and sends their own material; a surprise commission is a consent breach, not a present.
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Context, in proportion
A line of why you are asking helps the judge pitch the clip; a page of history is unread, and it is not the judge's job to hold it.
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A judge is not a tape
Estimating size from an image is guessing, and a professional judge will say so; if you want a number, that is a measurement question with its own proper method.
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Polite, plain, brief
Write to a judge as you would to any professional you are hiring: friendly, direct, no innuendo, no register in the message itself; the register goes in the brief.
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Asking for a harsh register is fine
Requesting humiliation from someone who offers it is a normal commission; what is rude is assuming they do it, skipping their limits or being harsh in the ask itself.
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Your boundaries, in a line
Your limits are as valid as the judge's; state them plainly, once, without apology, and a professional will simply work inside them.
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Legitimate complaints
Wrong register, ignored specifics, wrong length or non-delivery are fair grounds; not liking the opinion or your own photos is not, and platforms draw the line there.
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Questions about process
Asking about turnaround, formats and what a judge likes in a brief is welcome and useful; asking them to justify their price or their limits is not.
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Two or three, well chosen
A small number of clear photos that show what you want addressed beats a folder, because the judge has to decide which ones you meant.
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The brief is not the roleplay
Writing your request in the voice you want back, or in role, confuses the ask and reads as boundary-testing; describe the register, do not enact it.
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Names and privacy
Say whether you want a name used and which one; a judge cannot guess, and the choice trades presence against privacy in a way only you can weigh.
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Four lines is usually enough
Register, length, one specific, one exclusion: four lines cover almost every commission, and every extra paragraph makes it more likely one of them gets missed.
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Requesting speed
Ask whether a faster delivery is possible and say you understand it may cost more or be a no; demanding speed at the normal price is a request to jump other people's queue.
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The one detail that changes everything
A single concrete detail, question or comparison in the brief is what turns a generic clip into one made for you, and it costs one sentence.
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Availability questions
Ask whether they are taking work and roughly when a clip could land; do not ask for a slot before you have a brief, because there is nothing to schedule yet.
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Parallel commissions
Asking two judges for clips is normal; asking each to compete with, comment on or beat the other is not, and each brief should stand alone.
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Backing out
Cancel as early as you can, say so plainly, and expect to lose some or all of the fee once work has started; the judge planned their day around it.
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The question under the question
Wanting a specific person to look and respond is ordinary, judges see it all day, and the awkwardness is a reason to brief plainly rather than to hesitate.
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Coming back
Reference the first clip in a line, say what to keep and what to change, and skip the introductions; the second brief is shorter and better if the first was read.
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Moving the number the right way
Arguing about a quote marks you as a client to avoid; asking what a shorter or simpler version would cost is welcome and often works.
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Asking for humiliation politely
The register is harsh; the request should not be, and a clear, courteous brief with explicit limits gets a far better clip and a judge who wants to make it.
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When the boundary breach is theirs
Say so once, plainly, through the platform; a professional apologises and fixes it, and if they do not, that is exactly what dispute and block tools exist for.
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Asking for the truth well
If you genuinely want an opinion, say what you want it on and how blunt is fine; 'be honest' alone gets a careful clip that hedges out of kindness.
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What to look for in a judge
Choosing a judge for how they look rather than what registers they do is how you end up with a beautiful clip in the wrong key.
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Private means private
Posting a judge's clip to a forum or social feed exposes their likeness without agreement, and it is the fastest way to lose access to every professional judge.
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Naming your edges
A short 'nothing about X' is a gift to a judge who would otherwise guess, and it protects you from a clip that hits a nerve you never mentioned.
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The apology tax
Preambles about being sorry to bother a judge use up the goodwill and the space that a register line would have used better; the judge already knows what the job is.
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Changing the brief after the quote
Small clarifications before recording are fine; a new register or length after the quote is a new commission, and saying so yourself is the polite move.
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Asking anyway
Say you are new and a little anxious in one line, then write the brief as normal; judges handle this constantly and the disclosure improves the clip.
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One no is enough
Rephrasing a declined request, offering more money or trying another channel are all the same mistake, and they get you blocked rather than reconsidered.
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Rough length, not a stopwatch
A minute or so' or 'take your time, a few minutes' gives the judge what they need; asking for exactly ninety seconds buys you a stopwatch, not a better clip.
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Tipping etiquette
Tip after delivery, through the platform, with a line of thanks and no strings; a tip offered in advance or as leverage is not a tip.
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You asked, they answered
Disputing a judge's opinion after asking for it is the one move that turns a normal commission sour; if you wanted agreement, that was a different register.
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Checking before you commit
A one-line 'is X something you do?' before a full brief respects the judge's time and yours, and it is the polite route for anything near an edge.
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Writing a request that actually works
The brief is the part you control and the part that decides the result. Five minutes on it changes the outcome more than picking a different judge would.
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Faces in submitted material
Judges assess what you send; a face is neither expected nor needed, and leaving it out is the default rather than a sign of shyness.
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The register line
The single most useful sentence in any brief names the tone in plain words, and describing it beats naming it because labels vary between judges.
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Being declined
A decline is about fit, boundaries or capacity, not about you; a short thanks and moving on is the whole correct response, and pushing back is the one wrong one.
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Reply times cut both ways
A judge who quoted is holding a slot; replying within a day keeps it, and vanishing for a week then expecting the quote to stand is asking a lot.
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Nothing exotic
Nearly every rule on this site reduces to how you would treat any freelancer you were hiring; the subject makes people forget that, and remembering it is the shortcut.
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Opening well
State the register, the rough length, one specific and that you understand it is quoted; four lines that get a fast, warm reply from almost any judge.