Etiquette

Anonymity for the buyer

A handle, a brief and material that does not identify you is all a judge needs; anonymity is normal in this market and no judge will find it odd.

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Yes, mostly, and you do not need to explain why. A commission needs a handle, a brief, and material. None of those has to include your name, location, or anything that identifies you outside the platform.

What "mostly" is covering

The one thing you cannot fully anonymise is the material itself, if it happens to show something identifying - a visible tattoo, a background detail, a mirror reflection. That is on you to check before sending, not something the judge goes looking for. Files can carry hidden identifiers too: Apple's Personal Safety User Guide notes that people you share photos with may be able to read embedded location metadata and learn where a photo was taken. What a judge can actually see about you is otherwise exactly what you chose to hand over, and nothing more. The same discretion covers your face specifically: you do not have to show it, and leaving it out is the default rather than a special exception.

Most buyers on this side of the market are anonymous by default, so a handle with no name attached reads as completely ordinary, not evasive. A professional judge is used to knowing nothing about a client beyond a brief and a set of photos, and that is the working norm rather than an exception you have to request. Rate Cock builds its judge intake around that expectation, not as a special mode you have to switch on.

Why the norm exists

The market grew up around discretion, not despite it. Buyers came to commissioned reviews wanting exactly the kind of privacy a public forum or a social platform cannot offer, and judges built their intake to match that expectation rather than fight it. A platform that demanded real names or verified identities from buyers would be solving a problem nobody in this market has, at the cost of the one thing most buyers actually want. It also matches how UK data protection guidance frames good practice: the Information Commissioner's Office on data minimisation tells organisations to "identify the minimum amount of personal data you need to fulfil your purpose".

What actually matters instead

Write a clear brief and send material you are comfortable with, and the anonymity takes care of itself. A short, specific first message does not need a real name to work - register, length, one specific, and you are set.

Compare this to an automated tool, where there is no handle at all to begin with, just an upload treated per its stated privacy terms - or a private measurement you take and note down for your own reference, with nobody else in the loop. A judge sits between those two: more presence than a tool, and still no need for you to be anything but a handle to them. If the point of interest for you is comparing a number against others, that side of the market is its own thing entirely and carries none of this consideration at all.

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