Etiquette
The comparison ask
Asking where you sit among a judge's other buyers asks them to breach confidence, and it is one of the few briefs a professional will decline outright.
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Do not ask a judge to rank you against their other clients: answering means talking about someone else's material, and a professional will decline outright rather than price it higher. "Where do I rank among your clients" sounds harmless, but it asks the judge to trade away another client's confidence.
Why this one gets a flat no, not a quote
Most awkward requests get scoped and priced - a longer clip, a demanding register, a rush. This one is different because fulfilling it costs someone else their privacy. Answering it means describing another client's photos, body, or brief well enough for a comparison to mean anything, and that client never agreed to be talked about. A judge who would do that for you would do it about you to the next person who asked, which is the actual reason the answer is no rather than a higher number.
What it looks like from the judge's side
Every buyer who commissions a review is trusting the judge with material and a brief they would not want shared. Discretion about material sent is part of what separates a professional judge from a risk, and a judge who protects that trust for one client is protecting it for all of them, including you on your next order - it is the same standard Rate Cock holds judges to across the platform. The comparison request asks a judge to spend someone else's privacy to answer a question about you, and a good judge reads it that way immediately, however innocently it was meant.
It is worth being honest about why the request comes up at all: most buyers asking it are not trying to extract anyone's secrets, they are looking for reassurance dressed as data, and a comparison to strangers feels like a shortcut to it. The trouble is that the shortcut does not actually work even where a judge would break their own rule and answer - a rank among a handful of that judge's clients is not a rank among anyone else, and it would tell you nothing generalisable even if it were freely given. A percentile only ever describes the set it was computed from: NIST's Engineering Statistics Handbook defines it by the share of "the measurements" falling below a value, so a rank inside one judge's client list says nothing about anyone outside it. So the request fails twice: it asks for something a professional will not give, and even a dishonest yes would not answer the underlying question anyway. The reassurance being sought is real, and it is worth naming plainly in the brief instead of routing it through a comparison that can never come.
Where this instinct comes from, and where it does not belong
Wanting to know how you compare is a normal impulse and there are places built to answer it honestly. An algorithmic tool scoring a fixed set of criteria produces a position in a distribution by design, because it is not carrying anyone else's confidence - the comparison is the product, not a breach. A measurement against a known method gives you a plain number to compare elsewhere too, again with nobody else's data exposed to get it. A human review was never built to do this job, and asking it to is asking the wrong instrument for a comparison, not a smaller version of the right one.
What to ask for instead
If what you actually want is a sense of where you fall, ask for that from a tool designed to give it, and ask the judge for what they are actually good at: a specific, considered response to you. Why two reviews from two judges cannot be compared covers the related point that even your own clips do not stack against each other cleanly, because each is one performance responding to one brief, not a data point on a chart. On the judge's side, this is the mirror of why judges say no to comparisons at all - the same boundary, seen from the buyer's end of the request instead of the judge's. Ask the question you actually want answered, of the tool built to answer it, and save the judge for the thing a person can give you that a chart cannot: a considered read of you specifically, in the register you asked for, with nobody else's material anywhere near the answer - the same privacy standard an AI tool has to earn on its own terms, just achieved a different way.